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Dalai Lama – Invitation to Show Up with Compassion

The Dalai Lama invites us into compassion as a way of life.  Today’s meeting with President Obama at the White House elicited both praise from Tibetans and condemnation by the Chinese government.   While the politics of Tibetan-Chinese relations remain unresolved, it is the spirituality of His Holiness that makes him a global moral voice. He speaks to our hunger for meaning and purpose.

The Dalai Lama has said, “My religion is very simple.  My religion is kindness.”  No wonder so many throng to hear him.  Or that his spirituality connects with those on a spiritual quest.  It is a message of simplicity without being simplistic.  It stands in stark contrast to the divisiveness so often expressed in the name of religion.

I once heard His Holiness counsel a member of the audience not to abandon her own religious tradition, but instead, learn how to be more compassionate and kind in her daily life.  His lack of proselytizing or expecting a “buy-in” to all Buddhist teachings from the spiritual seeker is telling.  In itself it is an example of practicing the compassion and kindness that he expresses as the heart of spirituality.

People who encounter His Holiness invariably leave with a renewed sense of life, usually feeling optimistic about their own purpose and spirituality.  It is a message far more profound than passing “feel good” emotions.  His message is rooted in the moral high ground of what we call inclusiveness; of what he describes as all things and all people, being intertwined.

The question which the Dalai Lama has suggested we ask in our conversations with the Holy is how can I “show up in the world in a way that will cause the world itself to change.”  Compassion and kindness impact our way of being.  They offer a new mindfulness to whom and how we are!

The issue may be human rights in Tibet, the way in which we each exercise leadership, our care for the environment, the hope of a more compassionate world for our children or any number of things affecting the life of all.

Compassion and kindness are not just good ideas!  It is about how we show up in the world each day. No wonder the Dalai Lama connects and speaks to our longings, inviting us to become fully alive.  Kindness and compassion are possible to practice, to integrate into our living.  As if he is always coaxing, inviting us on, the Dalai Lama knows how to keep showing up.

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Your Footprint of Compassion

The compassion of people throughout the world to the people of Haiti has been remarkable.  Some estimate that at least 50% of all Americans have contributed to the Haitian relief effort in some way!  I believe we are each hard-wired to be compassionate and generous.

If you haven’t done so yet, please consider supporting groups with trusted, effective on-the ground relief capacity in Haiti.  Perhaps an organization like one of these:

Every compassionate and generous action makes a difference, joining that of others. We are hard-wired for generous compassion.  We grow into it by practicing compassion and generosity. Soon your part and mine reveals the face of compassion, hope, love and justice.  So we begin to leave a footprint of compassion.

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Compassion Unfolding? A Spiritual Touchstone

Compassionate hearts unfolding and stretching are the touchstone of our spirituality. The tragedy still playing out in Haiti provokes many reactions in us. Our varied responses to the people of Haiti change our spiritual compass. What has it changed in you?

I was in South Africa when the Haitian earthquake happened. From people living in squatter shacks, township homes or the upscale neighborhoods of Cape Town there was an outpouring of disbelief, horror, along with practical aid offered to the Haitian people. In a country which has experienced dehumanizing brutality the empathy quotient was high.

Flying home through Chicago people were glued to TV screens in the airport. These travelers seemed unwilling to miss a single word being reported out of Haiti. Back home the conversations in person and on Facebook have a strong focus on responding to the people of Haiti. Every TV show that I’ve watched invites me to give to the Haitian relief and rebuilding.

Unleashed generosity in you or me towards others brings a gift to us. Compassion is the spiritual mark of how alive we are. Generous compassion is the sign of our willingness to be stretched beyond our own comfort, beyond our own needs. We may hear people asking “Why did God allow such a terrible thing to happen?” We might have even asked it ourselves. Blaming God or the victims of any tragedy is usually a defense to keep ourselves from unfolding generous compassion. When blame or judgment is offered, run for cover because they never have anything to do with spirituality.

I don’t know your experience, but I do know that compassion unfolds when I feel like part of me is broken, or I’m grieving, or stepping through muck of some kind. It’s as if the broken bits offer us a choice. We can step on them and be cut by their jagged edges. Or we can discover the unexpected surprising beauty of the broken or chipped pieces being reconstituted with the help of the muck, grief or anger that we’re detaching from. In reconstituting the pieces I’m stretched. When I’m stretched compassion unfolds and grows deeper inside of me.

Those of us who live in the shadow of places such as Mount Rainier or the Golden Gate Bridge know that an earthquake can happen in an instant. There is not much distance between us and the people of Haiti. We are them and they are us.

Maybe that’s part of what I experienced in the South African responses to Haiti. Empathy, unfolding compassion and generosity are where we discover that we are all one human family. That changes what it means for us to be alive. To become fully alive, fully human, is the invitation of the spiritual quest.

You’ve probably already given to the Haitian people. If you have not or if you are planning to give again there are several great organizations, including CARE and Doctors Without Borders, on the ground in Haiti.

How has your reaction to what has happened in Haiti stretched you or drawn you into unfolding, generous compassion? Please join the blog conversation at http://www.robertvtaylor.com/blog/archives

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